
L’esprit d’escalier
Sunday, September 18th, 2005
You know the feeling don’t you? The arty party, the high stakes meeting, those arguments…
and your nemesis lets a barbed comment fly in your direction, and the room hears it hit its mark, and you hear the laughter/gasps of recognition/shoe gazing silence, and.
And.
At the very moment of your death-by-acid-tongue, you search for the one tearse phrase to put your verbal jousting partner face down in the dirt…
And.
Nothing.
The agony, (for agony it is) lasts to your parting. Others, the onlookers, the mourners, the furtive glancers are gone and you descend the stairs a beaten soul.
When inspiration strikes.
For some reason the act of placing your hand on the door knob, walking out and down the stairs resurrects the wit in you.
Of course the French have a phrase for it
You know the feeling don’t you? The arty party, the high stakes meeting, those arguments…
and your nemesis lets a barbed comment fly in your direction, and the room hears it hit its mark, and you hear the laughter/gasps of recognition/shoe gazing silence, and.
And.
At the very moment of your death-by-acid-tongue, you search for the one tearse phrase to put your verbal jousting partner face down in the dirt…
And.
Nothing.
The agony, (for agony it is) lasts to your parting. Others, the onlookers, the mourners, the furtive glancers are gone and you descend the stairs a beaten soul.
When inspiration strikes.
For some reason the act of placing your hand on the door knob, walking out and down the stairs resurrects the wit in you.
Of course the French have a phrase for it
